What are you reading this magazine for? 

You won’t get a badge of honor or some other award for learning about Stoicism. Nobody cares what books you read or what you know about ancient philosophy. 

And you don’t care either because you read it for yourself. Because you want to be the best you can be. Because you want to be able to deal effectively with life’s challenges. Because you want to live a happy and smoothly flowing life. 

And that’s what it’s all about. 

Philosophy doesn’t consist in outward display but in taking heed to what is needed and being mindful of it. 

Musonius Rufus, Lecture 16 

It’s who you are and what you do that matters 

It’s human excellence that makes a human being beautiful, says Epictetus. 

If you develop qualities such as justice, tranquility, courage, self-discipline, kindness, or patience you will become beautiful. Nobody can cheat themselves to true beauty. 

Good and bad lie in our choices 

It’s what we choose to do with the given cards that matters. If you try to be good, if you try your best, the outcome doesn’t matter. 

You can get good from yourself. “The fortunate person is the one who gives themselves good fortune,” says Marcus. “And good fortunes are a well-tuned soul, good impulses, and good actions.” 

Joy comes from your choices 

Well-intentioned actions will bring peace of mind. It’s your best chance for happiness. 

Do good because it’s the right thing to do. Don’t look for anything in return. Do it for yourself. So you can be the person you want to be. 

Don’t be the guy who shouts from the rooftops when doing a just act. “Simply move on to the next deed just like the vine produces another bunch of grapes in the right season.” Marcus reminds us to do good for its own sake. 

It’s our nature. It’s our job. 

It’s childish behavior to tell what good you’ve done. As a child, when I did something that benefitted our whole family, I made sure everybody knew what I’d done. But my mom? My dad? They did those exact things day in, day out without anyone noticing. We kids took everything for granted. 

As we ripen, we understand that doing the right thing and helping others is simply what we have to do. It’s our duty as smart, responsible, and mature human beings. Nothing else. It’s just what leaders do — not for the thanks, recognition, or the badge of honor. 

Do now what nature demands of you. Get right to it if that’s in your power. Don’t look around to see if people will know about it. 

Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 8.5 

As Roman Emperor, Marcus certainly had more power than we have, and his actions had a bigger impact than yours and mine. Yet, even the most powerful man on earth at that time reminded himself to “be satisfied with even the smallest step forward and regard the outcome as a small thing.” 

Let’s take a small step forward whenever possible. What comes from it? It doesn’t matter. 

“What is your profession? Being a good [person].” 

That’s the simplest job description there is. Which doesn’t mean it’s easy. But if we make it our goal to be good, then I’m positive we can get there. One good deed at a time. 

Do good, be good. 

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Jonas Salzgeber of NJlifehacks.com is an author. At the core of his actionable philosophy lies the goal of leading a happy life even—and especially—in the face of adversity. He is the author of The Little Book of Stoicism

 

 

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