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From Vol. 3, Issue 5, May 2021

What Does It Mean To Flourish?


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A life well-lived

As Stoics we often talk about living a good life and being happy. And it goes without saying that we all want to be happy.

But what do we mean when we say happy? The ancient Stoics had a very specific term for what we are aiming at: eudaimonia, or the deep, rich sense of satisfaction that comes with a life well lived.

Stoic scholar A.A. Long, in his Epictetus: A Stoic and Socratic Guide to Life, defines eudaimonia as a “condition in which a person of excellent character is living optimally well, flourishing, doing admirably, and steadily enjoying the best mindset that is available to human beings” In fact, many of us today use the term flourishing when we want to talk about deep, long-lasting happiness.

Flourishing as a state of mind

Flourishing is not an external condition, but rather a state of mind. We can flourish no matter what is going on in our lives because our mental fitness does not depend on external factors. Even if the world around you is crumbling, or if fortune does not hand you an easy life, it is still within your power to flourish. That’s because our state of mind depends on our own character and our responses to the world. We can feel deep satisfaction knowing that we have responded well, even in a difficult situation.

Creating the state of mind

So if you’d like to learn how to flourish, in the Stoic sense of the word, start by focusing on your responses to the world. Instead of complaining about your life or feeling sorry for yourself, just think about offering the best possible response to whatever situation you find yourself in. Here’s a simple formula for staying focused on a Stoic response:

Character + Cosmos + Control = Choice

Let’s look briefly at each element of this formula.

When you focus on your response to the world, rather than getting upset about what the world is doing, you begin to develop a steadiness of mind that eventually leads to long-lasting happiness. No one ever said flourishing is easy, but it is certainly possible to make progress. So no matter where you are, and no matter what conditions you may face, you can start to develop “the best mindset that is available to human beings”. Make the choice to flourish!

Brittany Polat, author of Tranquility Parenting: A Guide to Staying Calm, Mindful, and Engaged, holds a Ph.D. in applied linguistics but currently researches and writes about Stoic psychology and philosophy. Brittany's latest project is Living in Agreement, where she applies her lifelong interest in human nature to the discourse and practice of inner excellence.