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From Vol. 5, Issue 7, July 2023

Paradise is a library

Practicing Stoicism || KAREN DUFFY WITH FRANCIS GASPARINI

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The great Greek philosopher Heraclitus is reputed to have said, “I am what libraries and librarians have made me.” I have to agree with that because I go through books like an elephant goes through peanuts. Francis Bacon, the philosopher and scientist, wrote that “Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested.” I try not to choke when devouring a book.

Reading books on philosophy

I luxuriate in reading philosophy, but I also read the novels of Charles Portis, the poetry of John Donohue, and the nonfiction of Dr. Lindsey Fitzharris. I read things that are serious but I also indulge in the pleasures of frivolous reading; I recently perused with delight the story of a man who adopted a dog. He noticed that the pup had a tattoo on its belly, and he loved his hound so much that he had a replica tattooed on his own body. He later discovered that the tattoo meant “neutered”.

We read to know we are not alone

C.S. Lewis wrote that “We read to know we are not alone.” It was through the unalloyed beauty of reading that I had the joy of meeting Margaret Fuller. This polymath was a writer, teacher, Transcendentalist philosopher, foreign correspondent, and military nurse. As a young woman in 1839, she started her “Conversations,” a series of discussions with other women about books and current events. She intended these sessions to compensate for the fact that many of her female peers had not received much in the way of education. “If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it. Today a reader, tomorrow a leader,” she remarked.

In 1840, Fuller’s friend Ralph Waldo Emerson asked her to edit a Transcendentalist journal called “The Dial”. When he didn’t pay her for two years, having really put the “free” in “freelance,” she finally quit. She went on to write for the New-York Tribune, where she was its first female book reviewer, first female editor, and then its first female foreign correspondent.

In England, she met the Italian nobleman Giovanni Angelo Ossoli, and was smitten. The two moved to Florence together, though it is not certain if they had gotten married at that point, or if they ever did. Fuller gave birth to their son Angelino, nicknamed Nino, in September, 1848.

Fuller, Ossoli, and Nino embarked on a ship to New York City. As they neared their destination, the ship ran aground on a sandbar just 50 yards from shore. Most of the crew and passengers abandoned ship, but Fuller and Ossoli could not swim. Locals came down to the water to loot the cargo streaming from the broken ship; none went to help the young family. A massive wave swept them overboard, and only Nino’s body was ever recovered.

Margaret Fuller’s life was too brief, but she blazed a trail across two continents. How did she do it? Through reading. She was born in 1810 to Timothy and Margaret Crane Fuller, and at this time girls were not given much of an education. Timothy was a maverick and put his daughter through a rigorous home-school program. She learned to read English before the age of four. By nine she had learned Latin and Greek, and read widely in these ancient languages.

She then had some years of formal schooling, including two years at the delightfully named School for Young Ladies. Upon returning home she continued her voracious reading and taught herself several more languages so she could read European literature. She was considered the most well-read person in New England, and was the first woman allowed in the Harvard library. Her life, her writing, and her legacy were built on a foundation of books.

Jorge Luis Borges mused that “I have always imagined that Paradise will be a kind of library.” In the small picturesque town near our farm, our library is the most beautiful building. It is situated on the village green and it is the heart of our community, a basilica for the brain. It is a temple for the material that lives between our temples.

Reflecting and sharing

Sharon Lebell, in her book The Art of Living attributes the following to Epictetus: “Don’t just say that you’ve read books, show that through them you have learned to think better, to be a more discriminating and reflective person.” I try to follow this maxim by making notes, reflecting, and sharing what I have read. In writing this article, I am following Epictetus’ advice.

Karen Duffy is a producer, actress, and former MTV VJ. Her latest book on Stoicism. Wise Up (https://amzn.to/3PpLv5D) is published by Seal Press.