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From Vol. 8, Issue 1, January 2026

Beginning again, every day

Practicing Stoicism || SHIRLEY KWOSEK SCIACCA

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January invites optimism—almost by force. New calendars, new planners, new apps, new resolutions—all focussed on the collective agreement that something can be better simply because the date has changed. The Stoics would have viewed this ritual with some suspicion. Not because renewal itself is foolish, but because it is fragile when tied to circumstances we do not control.

New year: Not always a fresh start

For me, this turn of the year is arriving under the weight of a good deal of uncertainty. The mood is one of reflection rather than celebration. Employment shifts and grant funding questions linger without resolution. My husband faced health challenges at the end of last year that now require vigilance, flexibility, and a quiet reordering of priorities for both of us. Family members dealing with their own challenges required patience and support without guarantees of success. None of this is fitting neatly into the cultural script of “fresh starts.” And yet, for me, this is precisely where Stoic optimism has proven most durable.

Meeting life as it happens

Stoic optimism is not the insistence that things will work out as we hope. Instead, it is the steadier conviction that we can meet whatever unfolds with clarity, agency, and integrity. Optimism, for the Stoics, is grounded not in specific outcomes—but in opportunities to practice the virtues and demonstrate expressions of good character.

It is not events that disturb people, it is their judgments concerning them. - Epictetus, Enchiridion, 5

With Stoic optimism, the invitation is not to deny difficulty, but to refuse to compound it through unexamined fear. As an example, when circumstances feel unstable, the temptation is to wait—to postpone confidence, energy, or resolve until the larger picture becomes clear. Stoicism offers a quieter alternative: treat each day as complete in itself and focus only on what you can control.

Confine yourself to the present. - Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 7.29

Optimism as the daily practice of attention

Optimism, in this frame, is not a promise about the day, week, month, or year ahead; it is a daily practice of attention.

As someone who often uses planning and structure to temper my anxieties I have found this perspective especially grounding during periods when long-term plans feel provisional. When the future resists clarity, the Stoic question is simple and demanding: What is mine to do today? Not next quarter, not after the uncertainty resolves—but now. As a person who is often tempted to build a rigid framework for my own experiences, I can remind myself that there is optimism embedded in this question of what I ought to focus on, because it assumes sufficiency.

Cooperating with rather than resisting reality

Optimism arises from cooperating with reality rather than negotiating against it—and from remembering that today, rightly met, is enough.

This reframing has been essential as I navigate personal and professional transitions. Some days, optimism looks like focussed competence: answering emails with care, preparing materials thoroughly, showing up fully even when outcomes remain unknown. Other days, it looks like restraint: choosing rest over rumination, boundaries over overextension, silence over premature conclusions. Stoic optimism does not demand constant forward motion; it demands thoughtful and correct action to things that are often outside of our control.

Cooperating with reality vs. "giving up"

And this practice is not to be confused with a sort of resignation or “giving up.” The Stoics believed joy was possible—even reliable—when it was anchored to virtue rather than circumstance. And practicing the virtues is something we can do, even when those around us test us, present obstacles to harmony, or threaten future plans.

True happiness is… to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future. - Seneca, On the Happy Life, 3

In uncertain seasons, this approach is not naïveté; it is wisdom.

In times of ease, this can feel understated. In times of strain, it is quietly radical. So as the new year begins, I am actively resisting the urge to frame January as a referendum on the months ahead. Instead, I am practicing a smaller, sturdier optimism. Today is a beginning. Tomorrow will be one, too. Each day offers the chance to think clearly, act justly, and accept outcomes without surrendering steadiness.

Stoic optimism, rightly understood, is not the belief that things will improve. It is the confidence that we will meet what awaits us well—again and again––one day at a time, for as long as we are able to greet the day.

Shirley Kwosek Sciacca is a writer, living in the midwest, seeking wisdom and resilience through lifelong learning and the practice of Stoic principles.