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In Northern California, where I live, we can’t go outdoors because the air is fouled with noxious smoke from nearby wildfires and the countless other fires ravaging California, Oregon, and Washington State. A few days ago, the temperature outside was 115 degrees.

When things seem to fall apart

“Everything just feels like it’s falling apart, like we’re spinning out of control,” lamented an otherwise typically cheerful friend as we stared at each other over Zoom. “I’m tired of trying to fight the good fight. It used to seem like if I tried to be good and do good, it would make a difference. Now, I’m just tired.”

Dear Friend, 

I write to you as a mere person. Neither as sage, prophet, saint, nor leader, I nevertheless have learned invaluable lessons for a life well-lived. I humbly offer them as an abbreviated ethical will. 

The art of showing up - I practice yoga everyday, and probably do it wrong, but I show up and do it anyway, no matter what. It makes me better. Same with Stoicism.

A search for what’s true 

Since the COVID-19 pandemic stunningly upended life as we knew it, we are pointedly challenged to reconsider what is true and enduring, what is worthy and what isn’t, and the daily questions of “Who will I be today?” and “How shall I act?” Our templates for facing each day have been jiggled at best. 

The meaning of life 

“What is the meaning of life?” I asked my friend Jan. 

“Oh, that’s easy,” she shot back. “We’re here to love God, love each other, and eat pie.” 

Getting stuck on Channel C 

Has your mind ever gotten stuck on Channel C (the Crazy Channel)? 

Have you had the good fortune to read the innovative polymath Edward DeBono? One of his key ideas he called “Po.” 

I play an instrument I call “The Thing.” It is an imposing trapezoidal five octave one-of-a-kind fusion of a hammered dulcimer and cymbalom a gifted luthier designed and built for me years ago. 

How do you practice Stoicism? 

Here’s one way I daily practice Stoicism. First thing in the morning before the day gets away from me, I sit at my desk and open my special drawer. Inside are my favorite pens, some decent stationery, and postage stamps with appealing images I’ve carefully chosen at the post office. I have preprinted return address stickers at the ready and, if I want to take a walk on the wild side, some artsy markers, charcoal, paint brushes, and envelope sealing wax with an engraved stamp for fun and nostalgia. 

Let’s get back to basics. 

Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle: Some things are within our control, and some things are not. It is only after you have faced up to this fundamental rule and learned to distinguish between what you can and can’t control that inner tranquility and outer effectiveness become possible. 

Sittting vigil at the bedside of a dying woman is where I’ve spent the past several months. I held her hand as she desperately cried out for “mama.” I did my clumsy best to soothe with reassuring whispers or a cool cloth a once gregarious matriarch now mute, writhing, and coiled inside herself.

Much is written about in the Stoic literature that we should do “the right thing.” But do we always? If you are like me, probably not. Sharon Lebell believes that it is because we lack our personal code and perhaps we should all have one written down. Editor 

Back in 2007, many years before the Modern Stoic movement began advancing Stoic thought, Sharon Lebell wrote a book, The Art of Living which is a “new interpretation “ of Epictetus’ Enchiridion. This modern, plain English version of the Stoic classic became very popular and has been in print continuously since it was published. In this regular column Doing Stoicism, Sharon will be sharing her thoughts on how to practice Stoicism in our daily lives. 

Editor