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As Stoics we often talk about living a good life and being happy. And it goes without saying that we all want to be happy.

The unfortunate thing about desires is that they’re more like fast-spreading ivy than pretty potted plants: they tend to get out of control very quickly.

We all have moments when we need to tame our mind. Perhaps you feel yourself starting to become angry, or anxious, or just overwhelmed by everything you have to do.

“Despite our love of truth, though, difficulties arise because the truth is not always obvious or easy to understand.”

“As Stoics, one of our primary tasks is learning to see the world clearly and accurately.”

“So instead of giving in to pity, let’s train ourselves to truly help others by showing rational love and Stoic goodwill.”

“So let’s remember, as we look for moral teachers, that while theory is important, so is

“You have all the raw material to become wise, courageous, self-controlled, fair, and benevolent toward others.”

“You don’t depend on other people or circumstances for a good life. Instead, you possess the inner resources to find joy whatever you are doing.”

“Regardless of how mistaken you believe someone else to be, mocking or abusing them (as Epictetus once said) is not the way to lead them back to the proper path; that will usually just turn them against you even more. ”

“If you struggle with disorder in your actions and environment – if your life is a bit chaotic or unorganized – remind yourself that orderliness starts on the inside.”

“We could all do with a little more civility, a little more grace and graciousness in our lives. There is no shame in being decent, understanding, and non-strident; in fact, that’s where virtue lies.”

“Stoic cosmopolitanism... helps us cultivate a feeling of belonging, wherever we are and whoever we are with.”

“We can choose whether to go with the world the way it is, or be dragged along kicking and screaming.”

“To maximize your ability to do good in the world, don’t find motivation through anger or bitterness. Allow yourself to be happy, and share your happiness with others.”